Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
215 episodes
Unlock Your Attraction Archetype: What It Says About You and How You Date
Ever wonder why your relationships follow a similar script? Discover your unique Attraction Archetype in our latest podcast episode, based on data from over 46,000 women. Uncover your hidden patterns, understand the type of energy you attract, ...
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Dating Over 40 Feels Impossible? Not With These 5 Shifts
Are you dating over 40 and feeling like it's an impossible mission? Join us as we reveal 5 transformative shifts that will completely change your perspective and experience. Stop wishing you learned this sooner and start attracting the love you...
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Tears, Trust, and Triumph: Tracy's Path from Divorce to Deep Love
In this special client interview, Gary sits down with Tracy, who went from crying on a consultation call to finding her "above average Joe" just weeks after her lowest moment. After 22 years in a dysfunctional marriage, Tracy learned to trust h...
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Master the Difficult Dating Conversations: Money, Sex & Future
Are you dreading those tough talks about money, sex, or the future with your partner? This episode reveals how to master difficult dating conversations without blowing things up. Learn practical strategies to make these discussions easier and s...
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6 Qualities that Men Look for in a Wife
Curious about what makes someone wife-material? Tune into our latest podcast episode where we, two married guys, break down the top six qualities that made us realize we had found our lifelong partners. Trust us, this is a very personal and enl...
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Sick of Wasting Time? 7 Ways to Find Love Fast in Your 50’s
Tired of dating feeling like a second job with no benefits? This podcast episode offers 7 powerful strategies to transform your approach, helping you date smarter, not harder. Discover how to identify your non-negotiables, efficiently screen po...
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5 Ways to Make Him Emotionally Addicted to You
Let’s be honest: Love is addictive.So why do some women get hooked—and end up with breadcrumbs—while others flip the script and have men addicted to them?In this episode, I reveal five powerful (and unexpected) ways to make ...
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He's Not as Great as You Think: Stop F.I.B.ing to Yourself
The heart is a powerful force, relentlessly pursuing what it desires, often without our conscious realization. This pursuit can lead us to engage in a deceptive practice called F.I.B.ing—Filling In Blanks.In today’s podcast, we discuss w...
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How to Date a Guy That's Not Your Type
Tired of endless bad dates with the same old "type"? This episode dives into why your usual dating patterns might be holding you back and how breaking free can lead to better relationships. Discover why your "picker" might be broken and learn a...
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4 Destructive Beliefs Keep Women Over 40 Single For Life
Still single and wondering why love hasn’t clicked yet? This video uncovers four sneaky beliefs that might be sabotaging your love life—without you even realizing it. From rejecting your feminine energy to waiting until you're “100% ready,” fin...
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11 Ways to Date with Feminine Confidence (Ditching the Doormat)
Discover 11 game-changing strategies to date with confidence in our latest podcast, "Ditching the Doormat."Learn how to set boundaries, embrace your worth, and find genuine connections without compromising your true self. Say goodbye to ...
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Who’s the More Delusional Dater…Men or Women?
Are you constantly swiping left and wondering why dating feels so broken? In this no-holds-barred episode, we're tackling the elephant in the room: who's more delusional in dating – men or women? Tune in to uncover the surprising truths about w...
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Give Me 7 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men
What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, withou...
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How to Turn a Breakup Into a Positive Experience
If you're facing a breakup or have just recently gone through one, your life starts to feel like it's falling apart. But the research shows that many times, our breakups can be an incredibly positive experience. In today's podcast, Gary and Ada...
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Rethinking Attachment Styles: What Everyone Gets Wrong
Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to ide...
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5 Ways to Get More Affection From Men
Struggling to get the affection you desire from men? The good news is, you can have the love you desire, without chasing it. In this video, you'll discover 5 powerful (and subtle) ways to inspire more affection from men, without losing...
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3 Transformative Steps for Getting Over Your Ex
Breaking up can feel like an end to your world as you know it. Everything around you – from the music you hear to the shows you watch – reminds you of your ex. It's a challenge even to recognize who you are without them. But what if there's a b...
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If You’re Over 40, Dating Apps Might Be Failing You—Here’s the Fix
Do you prefer real-life sparks but find dating apps have tainted your approach? This episode unpacks the hidden ways online dating creates bad habits, from superficial evaluations to the 'What's In It For Me?' mindset. Learn how to break free a...
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Men Secretly Fear These 5 Things About Older Women
Ever felt like your age or confidence was scaring men off, but couldn’t quite put your finger on why? In this new video, I’m revealing the five real reasons some men avoid dating older women. Once you understand them, you’ll be in the driver’s ...
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How to Believe in Love Again: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy
In this podcast, Dr. Lewandowski and I will share the game-changer: the "3 P's" - Potential, Process, and Progress. These concepts can make dating clearer and brighter for you.And here's a tip: the word "YET." This tiny word can change h...
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What Does Mature Masculinity Look Like in Dating?
Tired of dating games and men who constantly disappoint? This episode reveals why true masculinity is so elusive and how to spot the problematic "alpha assholes." Learn to identify the S.T.R.O.N.G. qualities of genuinely good men and finally fi...
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5 Trending Dating Principles That Will Change How You Think About Love (With Macy Matarazzo)
Think you know the dating scene? Think again. In this episode, we're joined by Macy Matarazzo, a Senior Love Advisor with Love Strategies, to break down five modern dating trends and what they reveal about modern love. Learn how to decod...
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7 Ways You’re Making Your Dating Life Miserable (Without Knowing It)
Ever wonder why dating feels so hard? This week, we're uncovering the hidden ways you're unintentionally making your romantic life miserable. Get ready to identify your own blind spots and finally break free from these frustrating patterns.
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If A Man Ignores You, Here’s What He’s Thinking
Whether you’re dealing with a one-time ghoster or a guy who’s suddenly MIA mid-connection, here’s what his behavior is actually telling you—and how to respond without losing your sanity (or your standards).
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#1 Strategy to Attract More Authentic Men (Hint: It's NOT What You Think)
Dr. Lewandowski and Adam uncover the importance of authenticity and how being provocative can lead you to the right match. Learn why your quirks are actually your advantage in the dating world and how embracing your uniqueness is your ultimate ...
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