Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
248 episodes
How to Stop Being Manipulated By Men
If a man is trying to manipulate you, he can’t truly love you. Because love isn’t about control, it’s about collaboration. In this episode, I break down the subtle signs of manipulation most women miss, why even strong, successful women fall in...
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How to Date Someone Out of Your League
When we think of our ideal partner, the list often includes being highly attractive, intelligent, possessing a great personality, and solid values. Essentially, we're seeking perfection. This desire drives us to aim high, sometimes even out of ...
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Compliments that Drive Classy Guys Wild
Want to know what to say to make a guy feel truly special and appreciated? Stop telling him he's funny and start giving him compliments that matter. In this episode, we're revealing the core compliments that will set you apart and build an inst...
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Is Wanting a Boyfriend Now "Embarrassing"?
When Vogue published an article questioning whether having a boyfriend is now “embarrassing,” I knew this wasn’t just another headline. It was a sign of a deeper shift in modern dating that most people aren’t even noticing.In thi...
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6 Red Flags of an Emotionally Broken Man
Is he a lone wolf or a wounded soul? Discover the signs of an emotionally broken man and understand why recognizing them is vital. Unmask the hidden patterns that could lead to a toxic relationship and learn how to protect your emotional well-b...
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Inside the Mind of a Cheater: Why They Do It and Who They Target
Ever questioned why someone cheats - even when the relationship seems fine? This episode exposes the hidden psychology behind infidelity, the emotional gaps that lead people astray, and the subtle red flags most women overlook. If you’re ready ...
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Beyond Physical Beauty: What Makes A Woman Magnetic
You've probably heard it before: beauty is only skin deep. While physical attractiveness can certainly draw attention, it's the inner qualities that truly captivate and keep a man's interest. So, what truly makes a woman irresistible?...
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How Powerhouse Women Attract Powerhouse Love
Tired of dating down? In this episode, we're revealing the secrets for powerhouse women to attract powerhouse love. Discover how to build a truly synergistic partnership without compromising your success or your authentic self.
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6 Traits of a Masculine, Emotionally Secure Man
Are emotionally secure masculine men still out there — or are they just a myth in today’s dating world?In this video, I’m breaking down the six traits of a truly grounded, masculine man so you can stop wasting time on fragile eg...
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How to Be the Perfect First Date: 20 Easy Ways to Avoid Disaster
Tired of first date disasters? Discover the secrets to turning that initial encounter into a thrilling experience with our comprehensive guide to first date success. From pre-date preparation to post-date follow-up, learn 20 expert tips that wi...
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5 Years From Now, You'll Wish You Took Love More Seriously
If you feel stuck in a dating rut, it's time to face a tough question: What motivates you to find love? We all know what we're running toward—a great relationship—but what if your most powerful motivation lies in what you're running from? Join ...
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Ladies, Do These 7 Things and Stay Single Forever (A.C.T. F.A.S.T.)
After coaching over 44,000 women, I’ve noticed a few surprising patterns that guarantee you’ll stay single—no matter how much you want love. In this video, I reveal seven subtle habits that sabotage even the smartest, most successful women… and...
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How to Stop Chasing Men and Start Attracting Love
Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest pod...
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Eight Magical Phrases That Make Men Commit
Ever wish you had a cheat sheet for relationship communication? We’re going beyond the typical advice to give you the exact words and phrases emotionally intelligent partners use. From handling conflict to showing genuine care, this episode wil...
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If He Does These 5 Weird Things… He’s Into You
Ever wonder why some men act so weird when they really like you? From talking too much to teasing you like a middle schooler, these behaviors can seem confusing until you realize what they really mean.In this video, I reveal ...
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Does He REALLY Want a Relationship or Is He Lying? 6 Ways To Decipher His True Intentions
Discover the hidden clues to his relationship intent. If you’re tired of the mixed messages and want to decode what he truly wants, our latest podcast reveals four key motivations behind his actions and helps you spot the genuine signs of relat...
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Mankeeping: Are You Doing Too Much For a Low-Effort Man?
Tired of "mankeeping" and feeling drained in your relationships? We're diving deep into this viral term, challenging the narrative, and revealing how a fresh perspective can actually make dating easier and more fulfilling for women. Tune in for...
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The Science of Love: What Your Brain Knows and Your Heart Gets Wrong
Love isn’t just about butterflies; it’s brain chemistry, choices, and the habits you build together. In this episode, Dr. Gary Lewandowski (Chief Love Scientist at LoveStrategies) unpacks the science behind passion, intimacy, and commitment, ho...
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Give Us 10 Minutes And We'll Teach You How to Flirt Over 40
Flirting over 40 doesn't have to be a mystery. In this 10-minute guide, we'll teach you a dignified and high-character approach to flirting that leaves the giggling and cutesy stuff behind. From subtle body language to playful verbal cues, you'...
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6 Myths That Silently Sabotage Your Dating Life (And Push Men Away)
What if the “dating advice” you’ve been told your whole life is the very thing keeping you single?In this video, I uncover the 6 biggest myths that silently sabotage smart, successful women in love. These myths feel true—but they quietly...
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Why Confidence (Not Perfection) Makes You Irresistible to Men
Are you tired of attracting the same type of partner? In this episode, we're moving beyond identifying the wounds that attract unhealthy partners and shifting the focus to what truly matters: your worth. Tune in for five powerful strategies to ...
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What Men Find Deeply Beautiful in a Woman (It’s Not What You Think)
You think men are drawn to looks, charm, or the perfect body, but what actually captivates them runs much deeper. In this video, I reveal what men find truly beautiful in a woman (and how to tap into it effortlessly).
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The Hidden Cost of Being ‘Too Independent’ (and How to Fix It)
In this episode, Dr. Gary debunks the modern myth that independence is the ultimate goal. You’re absolutely right to believe in yourself—but wrong to think you can thrive completely alone. Discover the surprising science behind why connection i...
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5 Signs Your Wounds Are Secretly Choosing Your Partners
Are you tired of attracting the wrong kind of love? This week, discover if your past wounds are unknowingly picking your partners and learn to identify the five key emotional injuries that might be sabotaging your relationships. Tune in to star...
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5 Magnetic Phrases That Spark Chemistry on a First Date
Are you spending all your energy perfecting your look for a date, only to have the spark fizzle? The truth is, men don’t fall for appearances… they fall for how you make them feel. This week, discover five magnetic phrases that instant...
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