Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
360 episodes
How to Turn On a Guy INSTANTLY (with Your Eyes)
In a digital age dominated by screens, genuine eye contact has become a rarity. But did you know that it is key to enhancing memory, emotional closeness, and immediate attraction? Dr. Lewandowski and I explore the science behind eye contact and...
Why He Won't Open Up: The Real Psychology Behind Getting Him to Share
You've been patient, you've asked thoughtful questions, you've tried to create the perfect moments for him to open up… and yet he still gives you the conversational shrug. That wall stays up.But here's what's actually happening: He's not...
The 3 Reasons Why Successful Women Turn Off Men [HARSH TRUTH]
Listen, if you're crushing it in your career but men seem turned off, I have news for you: it's not your resume. It's the three qualities that made you successful in the first place—control, lack of trust, and perfectionism. The same drive that...
He's Pulling Away...Now What?
Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this podcast, we'll explore the various reasons why this might ha...
5 Disturbing Ways Men Prey on Accomplished Women
You're smart, successful, and confident—exactly what attracts great men. But here's the uncomfortable truth: those same qualities also make you a target for a specific type of parasitic guy who knows exactly how to weaponize your strengths agai...
10 Harsh Truths about Dating Men You Wish You Knew Sooner
Are you sick of the same old dating advice? Our latest podcast shares 10 harsh truths about dating that you wish you knew sooner. Stop wasting time and start making real progress in your love life by learning these essential insights.A little t...
7 Steps to Attract High-Caliber Men
Ever notice how the guys you ignore chase harder, while the ones you pursue vanish? It's not magic. It's about stepping into your power and letting high-caliber men do the pursuing.In this episode, I'm breaking down the 7 Little Love St...
4 Easy Ways to Make Him Emotionally Captivated by You
"Guys only care about looks." This common misconception couldn't be further from the truth.While physical attraction plays a role, it's far from the only factor that draws men in.To truly captivate a man, you need to igni...
10 Truths That Make Dating Easier When It Feels Impossible
Dating is hard. And look, I'm not here to sugarcoat it with toxic positivity or tell you to just manifest your man with crystals. The truth is 75% of daters say it's difficult to find someone, and half of Americans think dating is worse now tha...
7 Things Women Do that Chase Men Away
Are you finding it difficult to maintain romantic connections? You might be unknowingly sabotaging your relationships. While you may be trying your best to impress and attract men, certain behaviors can inadvertently push them away.Here ...
How to Stop Wasting Time on Men You Don’t Want
You've gotten really good at flirting. Maybe a little too good. Now guys are always approaching you, always wanting to chat you up, and you're thinking, "How do I turn this off?" Here's the truth: if you're going to be out there flirting and me...
He Wants a Break? NEXT!
He wants to take a break. Those words can pierce right through you, and I get it - the confusion, the pain, the endless loop of "what if I'd done something different?" But here's the thing: you don't have to sit in that pain for months or years...
How to Stop Chasing Men and Start Attracting Love
Tired of chasing men who seem completely oblivious to you? Discover how to shift your mindset and behavior to attract the love you deserve. Learn the importance of independence, personal growth, and a positive outlook. Tune in to our latest pod...
5 Ways Successful Women Overlook Good Men
I hear this every single week: "Adam, I only attract narcissists. The good guys just don't exist in my area." And every single time, I tell my clients the same thing - you're wrong. The good guys ARE there. You're just filtering them out before...
How to REALLY Know If a Man is Falling in Love With You
So how do you know if a man is falling in love with you? Here's the real deal: it has very little to do with his words and much more about his behavior. In this week's episode, Dr. Lewandowski and Adam LoDolce reveal the true signs that a man i...
What Makes Intimacy 10 Times Better? Try These 8 Simple Tips
Look, I get it - you're a high achiever who crushes it at work. But here's the problem: that same intense, outcome-focused energy that makes you successful in the boardroom? It absolutely kills the vibe in the bedroom.In this episode, Ga...
3 Mistakes Women Make When Men Pull Away
You’ve been dating for a few months, and everything is GREAT. The start was amazing, and things have only gotten better. You’ve had the Define The Relationship (DTR) talk and are officially exclusive. You’ve made it to exactly where...
Single Since 2006. One Decision Changed Everything. (Hayden's Story)
Look, I get it. You've been the person everyone leans on - the caretaker, the achiever, the one who always puts herself last. And now you're wondering if real love is even possible at this stage of your life. You've convinced yourself you're no...
#1 Way to Make a Guy Like You INSTANTLY
Tired of those awkward first date silences? We've got the ultimate trick that promises to make any conversation sizzle. Uncover the simple yet powerful art of mirroring in today’s brand new podcast.Originally aired: Sep, 30, 2023
What Men REALLY Want in a Woman: 4 Traits NOBODY Talks About
In today’s podcast, we're going beyond the usual clichés and explore four key traits that men genuinely desire but are often overlooked. These traits aren't just about attracting men; they are qualities that anyone can cultivate for their own p...
Ghosting is a good sign
Ghosting hurts - no question. It feels like rejection, and your brain spirals: What did I do wrong? Why wasn't I enough? But here's the reframe that changes everything: ghosting isn't a sign you're losing. It's proof your standards are...
The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With Confidence
When you're single, striking up conversations with people you find attractive can seem daunting. So, in today's podcast, Dr. Gary Lewandowski breaks down the The Science of Flirting: 7 Ways to Flirt With ConfidenceOriginally ai...
4 Signs You've Talked Yourself Into Dating the Wrong Man
I'll be straight with you: talking yourself into the wrong guy doesn't happen because you're desperate or naive. It happens because you're empathetic, capable, and actually really good at making things work. But those same strengths can become ...
8 Body Language Secrets That Turn Men on (Based on Science)
What if I told you there are incredibly simple yet effective techniques to show interest without uttering a single word? Each of these methods is grounded in scientific research and can catch the attention of someone new or signal your interest...