Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women
Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help women attract high-value men, date with strategy, and deepen their romantic relationships. We provide the latest research in dating and relationships, combined with plain old common sense, to give you insights into the male mind found nowhere else. Hosted by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski.
Episodes
304 episodes
Give Me 7 Minutes and I’ll Make You Dangerously Attractive to Men
What if the key to becoming irresistible to high-character men has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your energy? In this video I invite you to discover 5 surprising ways to become deeply attractive to men, withou...
5 Ways To Avoid Wasting Months On The Wrong Guy
Stop wondering "is he the one" and start knowing.In this podcast episode, we’re sharing the 5 essential ways to qualify a man’s character quickly so you can stop wasting months on the wrong ones.Learn how to create a "Love Vision"...
Men CHOOSE Women Based on These 5 Emotions
When a man is ready to commit, it’s not about your résumé, your looks, or even how perfectly you check his boxes. It’s about how you make him feel—and there are five specific emotions that tip the scales from “she’s great” to “she’s the one.”
You’re On Track To End Up Alone
When I say “never settle,” I don’t mean what Instagram usually means by it.In this episode, I walk you through how I actually think about standards, trade-offs, and non-negotiables in a way that successful women rarely get told.If...
The Truth About Dating Divorced Men: Do's, Don'ts, and Dealbreakers
Thinking about dating a divorced man—or already in a relationship with one? 🤔 Discover the do’s, don’ts, and dealbreakers so you know exactly what to look for (and what to avoid).Originally aired: Jan. 25, 2025
Keep Dating Like This… And You’ll Stay Alone
What if the secret to your future was hidden in the past?We’re diving into the "Lost Art of Dating" to show you why your grandmother’s approach to romance was actually more effective than any algorithm.Learn how to slow down the r...
5 Keys for a Thriving Relationship After 40
Feeling discouraged by the idea of dating after 40? It doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, we reveal The 5 S’s of Successful Dating After 40—so you can navigate love, relationships, and the modern dating scene with confidence...
Break the Cycle of Toxic Relationships (Be a Cycle Breaker)
You didn’t choose the relationship patterns you inherited, but you can choose whether they end with you. Discover how becoming a "Cycle Breaker" creates a ripple effect that transforms not just your love life, but the lives...
The 5 THINGS about Modern Dating that EVERYONE Gets Wrong
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the ever-changing landscape of modern dating? It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of apps, algorithms, and endless options. But before you throw in the towel, let's debunk some common misconceptions abo...
The Lies You've Been Told about What Men Want
Stop asking your single friends why "all men are the same" and start looking at the data that proves they aren’t. It’s time to stop using myths as emotional armor and learn what high-character men are actually looking for in a partner.Re...
Are You A Walking Red Flag? Here are 7 Signs
Are you unknowingly sabotaging your love life? We're flipping the script on red flags and asking: what if you're the problem? Discover the 7 hidden habits that might be sending good guys running, and learn how to transform them for las...
5 Guys You MUST AVOID to Find Love Successfully
Ever feel like you have a "Broken Picker"? You know what you want, yet you keep ending up with the same disappointing results.In this episode, we’re acting as your protective big brothers. We’re breaking down the "Michelangelo Dating Str...
7 Things Men Secretly Desire More Than Looks
I made this for the woman who is already successful by every external measure, yet quietly wonders why love still feels harder than it should. If you’ve ever suspected that the real leverage in dating has nothing to do with looking “more perfec...
When Should I Expect Him To Say "I Love You"?
Wondering why he hasn’t said “I love you” yet? In our latest podcast, we dive into the timing and significance of those three little words, exploring when it’s too soon, too late, and just right. Discover the truth behind the words and the acti...
5 Simple Tests to Know If He's the One
Stop Decoding Him and Start Deciding. Stop spending hours in the group chat trying to figure out why he hasn't texted back. It’s time to take your power back.In this episode, we give you a simple framework to see into the future of your ...
3½ Words That Make Men Pursue a Woman
This is for women who are done playing hard-to-get, but still want to be deeply pursued by the right man. In this podcast, I lay out a few small shifts that quietly change how high-quality men experience you from the first interaction.If...
7 “Nice” Things Guys Do That Are Actually Red Flags
Ever been swept off your feet, only to realize it was a red flag parade in disguise? We're diving into the seemingly sweet behaviors that actually scream toxic. Learn to spot the subtle signs of manipulation and control before you fall for a fa...
Is Dating Feeling Hopeless? 7 Questions to Get You Unstuck
Feeling stuck in your dating life and wondering if it's time to give up entirely?Sometimes all you need is a shift in perspective to break through the frustration. In this podcast episode, we share seven powerful questions that will...
9 Things to Look for in the Man You Marry
If you keep falling for charm… and paying for it later, listen to this.There’s a difference between a man who excites you and a man you can actually build a life with. In this podcast, I break down the 9 traits of a high character man - ...
The Psychology of Body Language: 7 Ways to Capture Men's Attention
Unlock the secrets to effortless attraction with our 7 research-backed body language techniques that will have men drawn to you from across the room. Learn how to project confidence, spark intrigue, and master the art of nonverbal communication...
Give Me 20 Minutes and I'll Make You Magnetic to Mature Men
Sparks are fun. But if you want to be truly magnetic and create a relationship that lasts, it’s time to stop chasing men and start drawing them in.In this podcast, we break down five powerful ways to cultivate “YES Energy,” confidence, a...
7 Subtle Things Men Do to Test Women
When a man is “testing” you, it is easy to slip into performance mode without even noticing. In my latest podcast episode, I walk you through some of the quieter ways this shows up - from first date to long-term commitment.I recorded it ...
5 Must-Ask Questions to Get to Know Your Guy—Fast!
Tired of dating guesswork? Learn the five must-ask questions that cut through the small talk and reveal a man's true self, fast! Stop wasting time on dead ends and start gaining real insights into his values, relationship style, and fu...
7 Signs He's Playing Games and Breadcrumbing You
Breadcrumbing is attention without intention. It feels like a thrill, but it's a game of control where they keep you hooked and waiting. If you're done with partners who text "I miss you" but never make plans, listen now. We'll show you how...
He’s Moving Way Too Fast? Say THIS to Slow Him Down
So many high-achieving women tell me the same story: “He was wonderful… until he started pushing for sex.” If that sounds familiar, I want you to see that moment not as a crisis, but as a powerful filter. In this podcast, I share one simple con...